Winning Over Anger

Since our hearts are revealed through our thoughts, words or actions; quick temper, angry outbursts, explosions of rage toward people or things indicate a response of the old "self". In these situations, a person would usually be seeking revenge or retaliation against another person, using words and/or actions that do not encourage or strengthen. Anger is often used as a manipulative tool to "protect your rights" or "get your own way". God views these manifestations as "sin" as they are not merciful, compassionate or forgiving which are some of the characteristics needed in learning to live God’s way.

The Bible says:

"My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires. Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent, and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you." (James 1:19-21)

Giving vent to our anger does not show wisdom or self-control. It would likely show us to be acting foolishly and no one likes being called a fool. Notice what the Bible says:

"A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control". (Proverbs 29:11)

Jesus said that those who vent their anger would be called to judgment.

"Under the laws of Moses the rule was, ‘If you murder, you must die.’ But I have added to that rule and tell you that if you are only angry, even in your own home, you are in danger of judgment! If you call your friend an idiot, you are in danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse him, you are in danger of the fires of hell." (Matthew 5:21-22, Living Application Bible)

In the Bible, God addresses the sin of taking revenge into our own hands. This is usually a result of anger. Listen to what God says:

"It is mine to avenge; I will repay. In due time their foot will slip; their day of disaster is near and their doom rushes upon them." (those who have done you wrong) (Deuteronomy 32:35)

In addition God reminds us that pride is the root cause of anger. Notice what He says:

"…I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech." (Proverbs 8:13)

Now that we've seen how God views man's anger, let's go to the next link and find out where there is "hope" for the situation.